Do I Have to Set Aside Everything About My Life Outside of Christ?

By Mark D. Roberts

February 21, 2019

You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.

Ephesians 4:22-24


In yesterday’s Life for Leaders devotion, I noted that becoming a Christian isn’t a matter merely of adding a few new behaviors to your otherwise unchanged life. According to Ephesians 4:22, you were taught to “put off your old self” as if you were stripping off an old coat. But does this mean you have to set aside everything about your former way of life? Do you have to do everything differently if you’re going to live as a faithful Christian?

Common sense would say “No” as would the example of Paul himself. When he began serving Christ, Paul continued to speak Greek, work as a tentmaker, wear ordinary clothing, and so forth. He also rebuked new Christians who thought, for example, that becoming a Christian meant leaving their marriages (see 1 Corinthians 7) or ceasing to work because Christ was coming back soon (2 Thessalonians 3:6-13).

If, then, we are free to continue in some behaviors from our pre-Christian past, how do we know which aspects of life constitute our “former way of life” that we’re supposed to put off? How can we identify the old human being that needs to be removed like a ratty old jacket?

The context of Ephesians 4:22 helps us to answer this question (as does the language of the verse itself, which I’ll examine next week). In verse 20, Paul spoke about “learning Christ” (remember, that is the literal translation). In verse 21, the new believers “heard about Christ and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus.” Thus, the former behavior that we ought to put off, the old human being that needs to be stripped off, is anything which is inconsistent with Jesus Christ: his teaching, his example, and his death and resurrection. We are to take off that which contradicts the core of the gospel.

Must we reject everything about our pre-Christian life when receive God’s grace through Christ? No, that’s neither possible nor advisable. Rather, we allow Jesus, our Savior and Lord, to become our teacher. We begin to weigh everything in our lives in light of him. What he reveals to be evil, we cast off. What he eschews, we avoid. Things we do that are inconsistent with the gospel must be stripped off.

Next week, we’ll examine another aspect of the old self that is inconsistent with Christ. For now, I’d encourage you to reflect on the following questions.

Something to Think About:

What aspects of your life in the past, or even today, are inconsistent with the teaching of Jesus? With the example of Jesus? With the gospel of God’s grace through Jesus?

Have you stripped off these behaviors? How, by God’s grace, might you do so even more?

Something to Do:

Set aside some time for a quiet conversation with the Lord. Ask God to show you where your way of living is inconsistent with Christ. Ask for the grace to take off this way of living so that you can put on the new in Christ.


Gracious God, help me to understand which aspects of my life should be stripped off. May I see with greater clarity than ever before ways in which my behavior is inconsistent with Christ, his teaching and living. Show me where my way of life contradicts the gospel. By your grace, help me to see my “old self” clearly so that I might take it off. Amen.

Explore more at the Theology of Work Project online commentary:
Set Your Mind On Things Above: Heavenly Living for Earthly Good (Colossians 3:1–16)

Mark D. Roberts

Senior Strategist

Dr. Mark D. Roberts is a Senior Strategist for Fuller’s Max De Pree Center for Leadership, where he focuses on the spiritual development and thriving of leaders. He is the principal writer of the daily devotional, Life for Leaders,...

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